Melissa Fuller
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I have a really embarrassing problem. There’s this girl I like, and every time I’m around her I get hard! I can’t help it and I’m worried she notices. It feels like high school all over again. Is there a medication I can take to stop this from happening?
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I’ve been fooling around with this guy for about a month now, and everything was really great until he told me we can’t do anything for a bit because he’s clearing up a yeast infection. He also told me I should see a doctor to get antibiotics just in case. Is he trying to avoid sleeping with me, or can guys actually get yeast infections?
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I think my boyfriend wants to have anal sex. Lately before we have sex he’s been doing this awkward thing where he pushes against my asshole with his dick for a bit before moving down to enter my vagina. The first few times I thought it was dark and he just missed the mark but now I’m pretty sure it’s on purpose. I don’t really know if I want to try anal but I think we should be talking about it if it’s on the table. How do I bring it up?
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So, what’s the deal with teabagging? I mean, I thought I knew what it meant, but now I’m not so sure. Is it something people actually do? —Tea Time
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Getting hit in the crotch is pretty much a universal comedic gag, but
obviously the reality of being the receiver isn’t so fun. How bad can the consequences really be? Is it true a hit can kill you?
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I’m sleeping with a guy and things are going great—except for one thing. He’s convinced he can make me “squirt.” He says that every girl he’s been with did but I’m pretty sure it’s not happening and I’m sick of feeling like something is wrong with me. Can every girl do it?
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My girlfriend and I (a lesbian couple) talk about fisting sometimes and we both really want to try giving and getting it but I don’t want to fuck it up the first time and never get to try again. I’ve tried looking online but it’s hard to get through all the stupid forum responses. Can you tell me how to safely fist my lover?
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My boyfriend and I experiment with other people often. Usually it goes well and it’s just a fun time. Recently, though
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I can count on one hand the times I had sex sober but I can’t tell you how many people I slept with because I can’t possibly remember (30-40?). I need to stop using alcohol as a way to get close to people. I want to have a normal relationship one day. Help?
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I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple of months now, and we’re getting to the point where the “everything is awesome” stage turns into the part where you really get to know each other. Good news is, I still feel that we’re super-compatible—except for one small (or maybe not?) thing: I recently found out he has a foot fetish, and well, I don’t. I know this seems trivial, but I think sexuality is a really important part of who we are—and if this is a big part of his sexuality then, well, are we fundamentally doomed? If so, I’d like to find out before I get more invested…
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I’ve always liked and dated guys, but I met this girl and I think I have a crush on her. I don’t think it’s weird to like girls, but if I’m gay I think I’d know it by now. I’m still definitely into guys and I can’t imagine doing anything with a girl, but thinking about it really makes me hot.
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My boyfriend recently found out that I masturbate on occasion and, though I know he masturbates as well, he was surprised and found it weird that I do it because I’m a girl. Now I feel insecure about it and am confused about the double standard…
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I can’t get off when I get head because it, well… it tickles. I’ve only been with one girl and when I told her to stop
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Every time I have sex it hurts. It makes it really hard for me to orgasm and makes my boyfriend feel bad every time we have sex. What could be wrong with me?
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I recently adopted a pair of turtles, Jack and Jill, in hopes of having baby turtles by spring. But I’ve noticed that they won’t mate
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Women have relied on the pill as their go-to method of birth control for decades. Today it’s still the most popular and commonly used form of birth control, aside from the condom.
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My boyfriend and I are both into talking dirty. More specifically, he likes calling me names and stuff. This really turns me on too, but all of my girlfriends tell me that I’m letting him degrade me,
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Dear Melissa,
I totally know how to you use a condom. You just put it on and you’re good to go, right? Okay, so I made that question up. But with good reason! Over the past week, three people have asked me questions about condoms that I thought were general knowledge.
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I’ve just started dating a new guy and it’s getting pretty serious. We haven’t had sex yet and the other day he asked me if I’ve been tested recently.
